Posted on October 25th, 2023.

STACY SPEAKS!

Have you ever wished you had a safe person you could talk to? Someone who wouldn’t belittle your situation, make you feel small or hold it against you in the future? Someone you could trust. Someone who wouldn’t scold you, tell you what to do or make the situation worse?

Sometimes sharing our struggles with the ones we love the most can be the most problematic. Maybe we don’t want them to know the depth of our struggles because they are depending on us to have it all together and if they knew, it would scare them or cause them anxiety. This is why many people don’t share their struggles with their spouses or their children because they don’t want to cause additional worry for their family members. 

Or maybe you have tried talking to someone, but that person lacked empathy and could not understand your struggles, making you feel incompetent or weak. 

Or maybe you are embarrassed to share your struggles with anyone. If they knew, they might judge you, think less of you or not want to associate with you.

Or they want to give you all their solutions without truly listening to your heart.

Or maybe if you shared your relationship struggles with a friend or family member who is extremely loyal to you, they may not forgive the person you are struggling with as easily as you would.  

I have been in each of these situations.  

I found it difficult to find one person I could be completely honest with. 

I have always been a “strong” person, so it has not been easy for me to admit to others when I’m struggling. It felt as if I was disappointing them if they knew I didn’t have it all together.   

Life is hard. 

Things don’t always go as planned. 

 Very few of us have individuals with whom we can share all our struggles without feeling judged, misunderstood or rejected.

But what if you had a safe person with whom you could share everything in your life with no embarrassment, shame, or guilt?

What if this person could listen with no bias, no judgement, and no need to fix the situation for you?

What if this person could validate your struggle, help you view it from an outside perspective and help you determine how you would like to move forward?

If this sounds like something you have wanted, it can be achieved. 

From the time I was a little girl, I have always enjoyed listening to and talking to others.

I didn’t realize this was my one of my gifts until I reached adulthood. I have had complete strangers feel comfortable sharing personal information with me. They often will say, “I have never told anyone else what I just shared with you.” I am always honored when someone will entrust me with such important information.  

I earned my Master’s Degree in Communication Disorders and then became a Certified Life Coach. 

As a Life Coach I have been trained to ask questions which encourage deep, soul searching. Questions that most people have never asked themselves yet need to be answered in order to get unstuck in their lives and move forward.

I don’t have the solutions for your struggles; however, I believe that you do.  

You may just need someone who can listen.

Someone who will help you see your struggles from a different perspective.

Someone who will help you face and overcome your fears.

Someone who can help you get unstuck.

Someone who will help you design the life of YOUR choosing.

I would love to be that someone. 

If you feel you could benefit from talking to someone like me who genuinely wants you to live your best life, please fill out the “Let’s Talk” input sheet and schedule a time for you to meet me for a complimentary 20 -minute zoom call.

If you find this phone call beneficial, we can then discuss how you can work with me in the future to design the life of your choosing.

Let’s talk!

Stacy Speaks!